Why was I held as the golden child who was supposed to bring glory back to her family?

I was put on a pedistal.

They were using me to get back into the family.

Ricky and I have similar backgrounds he just happens to be black.

Middle class family

military background

white collar

until alice married mike then i was corrupted by blue collar society

Allen you are not white collar. your parents were.

allen is blue collar 

I wonder how the married into mexican side of our family would feel to know how he talks about mexicans when they arent around

How are you going to get mad at my husband and talk shit about him saying he ruined me?

Your licence just expired and you are hiding out in your house keeping a low profile so you dont get deported back to England. 

Youre here illegally and you want to talk shit about mexicans?

I'm not a fan of racist people. However, I have more respect for someone who knows who they are as a person and owns it.

Youre tired of the black and white shit?

Then stop making someones race a part of the conversation.

You can talk about people all day and not know someones race until its mentioned